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总有人问你，有对象没？

呵呵，没有呢。不可能吧！

其实，那是真的，不是没人追，只是没有合适的；不是眼光高，只是没有感觉的。

许有时想恋爱，想让自己不再寂寞，可是那个人却没有,不想随随便便的爱了。

因为有一种单身叫“宁缺勿滥”，有一种单身只为等待某人。

Viewing point

Raining heavily outside.
A:"Thank god it finally rains!"
B:"Damn it! It rains, i couldn't go out now!"

We always look at the situation based on the view that is beneficial to ourselves.
Dont you think so?

Just let it go

Sometime it haunts u in a sudden
Sometime it troubles u for whole night
Sometime it makes u feel angst

Just let it go
Promise me ok

The 12 most annoying types of Facebookers

Here are 12 of the most annoying types of Facebook users:

The Let-Me-Tell-You-Every-Detail-of-My-Day Bore. "I'm waking up." "I had Wheaties for breakfast." "I'm bored at work." "I'm stuck in traffic." You're kidding! How fascinating! No moment is too mundane for some people to broadcast unsolicited to the world. Just because you have 432 Facebook friends doesn't mean we all want to know when you're waiting for the bus.

The Self-Promoter. OK, so we've probably all posted at least once about some achievement. And sure, maybe your friends really do want to read the fascinating article you wrote about beet farming. But when almost EVERY update is a link to your blog, your poetry reading, your 10k results or your art show, you sound like a bragger or a self-centered careerist.

The Friend-Padder. The average Facebook user has 120 friends on the site. Schmoozers and social butterflies -- you know, the ones who make lifelong pals on the subway -- might reasonably have 300 or 400. But 1,000 "friends?" Unless you're George Clooney or just won the lottery, no one has that many. That's just showing off.

The Town Crier. "Michael Jackson is dead!!!" You heard it from me first! Me, and the 213,000 other people who all saw it on TMZ. These Matt Drudge wannabes are the reason many of us learn of breaking news not from TV or news sites but from online social networks. In their rush to trumpet the news, these people also spread rumors, half-truths and innuendo. No, Jeff Goldblum did not plunge to his death from a New Zealand cliff.

The TMIer. "Brad is heading to Walgreens to buy something for these pesky hemorrhoids." Boundaries of privacy and decorum don't seem to exist for these too-much-information updaters, who unabashedly offer up details about their sex lives, marital troubles and bodily functions. Thanks for sharing.

The Bad Grammarian. "So sad about Fara Fauset but Im so gladd its friday yippe". Yes, I know the punctuation rules are different in the digital world. And, no, no one likes a spelling-Nazi schoolmarm. But you sound like a moron.

The Sympathy-Baiter. "Barbara is feeling sad today." "Man, am I glad that's over." "Jim could really use some good news about now." Like anglers hunting for fish, these sad sacks cast out their hooks -- baited with vague tales of woe -- in the hopes of landing concerned responses. Genuine bad news is one thing, but these manipulative posts are just pleas for attention.

The Lurker. The Peeping Toms of Facebook, these voyeurs are too cautious, or maybe too lazy, to update their status or write on your wall. But once in a while, you'll be talking to them and they'll mention something you posted, so you know they're on your page, hiding in the shadows. It's just a little creepy.

The Crank. These curmudgeons, like the trolls who spew hate in blog comments, never met something they couldn't complain about. "Carl isn't really that impressed with idiots who don't realize how idiotic they are." [Actual status update.] Keep spreading the love.

The Paparazzo. Ever visit your Facebook page and discover that someone's posted a photo of you from last weekend's party -- a photo you didn't authorize and haven't even seen? You'd really rather not have to explain to your mom why you were leering like a drunken hyena and French-kissing a bottle of Jagermeister.

The Obscurist. "If not now then when?" "You'll see..." "Grist for the mill." "John is, small world." "Dave thought he was immune, but no. No, he is not." [Actual status updates, all.] Sorry, but you're not being mysterious -- just nonsensical.

The Chronic Inviter. "Support my cause. Sign my petition. Play Mafia Wars with me. Which 'Star Trek' character are you? Here are the 'Top 5 cars I have personally owned.' Here are '25 Things About Me.' Here's a drink. What drink are you? We're related! I took the 'What President Are You?' quiz and found out I'm Millard Fillmore! What president are you?"

You probably mean well, but stop. Just stop. I don't care what president I am -- can't we simply be friends? Now excuse me while I go post the link to this story on my Facebook page.

專注的焦點錯誤，再努力也只是白搭

有一個守衛負責在瑞士和奧地利交界處巡守。

有一天來了一個奧地利人，騎著腳踏車要通過崗哨。

他的腳踏車前面裝了滿滿一籃沙子，要是換做別的守衛，大概揮揮手就放他過去；但是碰到這位守衛可沒那麼簡單。


他直覺奧地利人一定在走私，於是拿出一把耙子，仔細翻檢沙子裡究竟藏了什麼東西。可是他翻了老半天，什麼也沒找到，只好揮揮手放他過去。

第二天，同樣的事情又發生一遍，第三天也是；日復一日，相同情節一再上演。始終找不到任何東西，但他就這樣翻查了三十年。

最後，這位守衛終於忍不住問那位奧地人：「這件事放在我心上好多年了，不過我今天就要退休了，要是我不知道答案，一定會很懊惱，希望你能告訴我答案。」

奧地人這麼多年來和他接觸，也和他有些感情，於是誠懇的點頭說一定會誠實回答。

於是守衛開口問：「這些年來我一直懷疑你走私，你到底是不是走私客？」

奧地利人遲疑了一下，「好吧！我的確是走私客。」

「我就說吧！」守衛說：「可是我天天檢查你的籃子，卻什麼也沒發現，你到底走私什麼東西？」

「腳踏車。」

那些太過專注眼前的人，就是像那位翻查沙子的邊境守衛，專注的焦點錯誤，再努力也只是白搭。

你還在做「那位翻查沙子的邊境守衛」？

當你在抱怨自己是「千里馬」，一直遇不到「伯樂」時，打開你的眼睛、耳朵，換個想法、換個腦袋？

「專注的焦點錯誤，再努力也只是白搭。」

Awesomeness of Nature

女生没有男朋友的好处

1、寿命长，不做大男子的出气筒；
2、省心，不用刻意打扮准备约会；
3、省钱；
4、省时，不用抽时间陪他；有更多的空闲陪伴父母；
5、节约口水；
6、可以随意和姐妹娱乐；
7、敬业，可以专心工作；
8、只要是单身，一家女百家求，身边总不乏追求者。
9、省力，不用去他妈家洗碗。