Is there anyone still blogging?

Thanks to the jobless day, I decide to visit all my friends' blog. As a result, sadly, I found most of them has either stopped or closed their blogs.

WHY???

From Monash astrophysicist Dr Kevin Pimbblet

"Whenever I speak to people who have influence, politicians and so on, they sometimes ask me 'Why should I invest in physics pure research?'. And I sometimes say to them: 'Do you use a mobile phone? Some of that technology came about by black hole research'.

"The pure research has knock-on effects to the whole society which are sometimes difficult to anticipate."

瓶中鵝

• 星雲 2011-05-14 19:29

有一個寫得很美，關於禪的故事：師父出了一個難題給弟子，他告訴弟子，有一隻小鵝，從小就被裝進瓶子里餵養。3個月後，這只小鵝的身體越來越大，已經大得無法從瓶子里出來了。請問要如何在不打破瓶子的前提下，把鵝活捉出來呢？

這問題把弟子問倒了，弟子每天靜坐冥想，該用怎個方法才能把鵝抓出來呢？最簡單的方法當然是摔破瓶子，可那就破壞了規則，不行。那先把鵝弄死，肢解後再一塊一塊取出來吧？那也不行，規則說了要“活捉”！

● 煩惱的念頭

各位想知道答案嗎？哈哈！撰文至此，我是一定要說的了。其實這答案一點也不科學，卻饒富禪意。

答案：根本沒有瓶子，也沒有鵝，所以沒有問題，也沒有答案。

師父想要表達的是，所有的問題與煩惱，都是你頭腦製造的幻想，它從來不曾存在過。這世上沒有這麼一隻活在瓶子里的鵝，如果你為一個不存在的東西憂慮，那就著相了。

瓶子里的鵝是一個比喻，喻著我們身邊發生的所有大事小事。很多問題，只存在於頭腦，而不出現在現實。

西方一個心理實驗與這故事異曲同工：人的煩惱，40%屬於過去，50%屬於未來，只有10%屬於現在。在這之中，92%的煩惱未曾發生過，剩下的8%則能輕易度過。

當煩惱出現，你要知道，你並沒擁有煩惱，你擁有的，只是一個煩惱的念頭。除卻念頭，甚麼也沒有，就像佛家所說的：“一切有為念有，一切無為念無。”

星洲日報／副刊‧文：米糠‧2011.05.11

Random picture LOL

Empty

You have to empty yourself before filling in new things



**I hate being an empty container**

What I Wanna

I dont need my partner to love me deeply coz I know I will hurt her unintentionally in the future
I want her to stay beside me and stay beside me.

I'm Back

Sometime being simple is not simple at all.

Dedicate to Nakok

Happy Mother's Day :D

Year after year you give me so many reasons to be thankful you're my mum. I love you!

Sister's wedding dinner

When I step into a new stage of my life(job hunting), my elder sister also steps into a later stage of her life. She is getting married tomorrow. C:

Complicated feeling now.
Wishes her in happiness forever and stay sweet with my brother-in-law.

P/s: please don't ask when is my turn ._.